Welcome to Day 4
The people pleasing pattern doesn't look like fear, it looks like kindness. It looks like being a good person, keeping the peace, showing up for others. But underneath the agreeableness is a survival strategy that formed when being yourself felt unsafe or unacceptable.
Day 4 goes to the root of this pattern—where it comes from, what it's actually costing you, and how to begin untangling yourself from it.
What you'll take away:
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Why people pleasing is a survival strategy, not a personality trait
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Why having this pattern means the people in your life may never have actually met the real you
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How the pattern subtly keeps you in relationships, jobs and situations that aren't right for you
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Two practices to begin deprogramming the pattern starting today
Day 4 - The People Pleaser Pattern
Your Guide
Hi! I'm Laila, an Ayurvedic practitioner, intuitive guide, and mentor. I work with women who are lineage reclaimers. They're the women who are breaking cycles and reclaiming their feminine power. These women often initially go down the expected path of culture, society and family. And at some point realize that there's something more for them. That life is calling them in a different direction. To embrace all that they are—with their full power, magic and medicine—unapologetically.
My approach is rooted in the ancient wisdom traditions of the East—Yoga, Ayurveda and Jyotish—and the shadow work and earth mysticism of today. I've studied with Dr. Jayarajan Kodikannath, Peter Crone, Dr. Robert Svoboda, Maryam Hasnaa, Asia Suler, Octavio & Emma Salvado and Sandra Ingerman among many other incredible teachers.